Day of Dread

So today came the day I have dreaded for years or maybe was just hoping would never happen. The girls were with Bill today as usual and I get a call from him. Which is very unusual because he seems to be able to take care of them pretty well with out problems. He tells me he has a problem so I am thinking a kid with a broken arm or leg you know, so I am thinking no big deal right. WRONG we have a problem. He tells me that word is their father or sperm donor whatever you want to call him is headed to town and plans to make a suprise visit so we cant avoid him. Well thankfully the one who knew the "secret" cant keep one to save his life. Grandma Carol called him and told him he was not welcome to see the girls or come to the house while they are there, cause it was not what I wanted. He tried to lie to her and tell her I was in contempt if I didnt let him see them. But thankfully she is smarter then that. So the girls are home for the night and will hopfully be able to go back tomorrow. I am hoping that he doesnt show up here cause I am not sure what I will do. But so far no problems but it has me worried cause he may have made the trip for no other reason then to cause problems. Good thing I covered my butt with a nice court order I think he thinks I have let my gaurd down, Makayla wouldnt even know who he is and poor Ashlee was pretty stressed by the whole thing. Ok so I feel a little better it just makes me wonder what the hell is wrong with people. And how someone can hurt a child and not even feel like they have done something wrong and are going to jump back into their lives like nothing happened after waiting 3 years. I guess this is what happens when you make bad choices when you young and dumb!

Just dont get it!!!!!!